The In-Between Is Beautiful Too: What to Do When You’re Not “There” Yet

There’s a moment between the start and the arrival that doesn’t get enough credit.

The in-between.

The “I’m doing the work, but I can’t see the results yet” season.

The “I know where I want to go, but I’m not there yet” chapter.

It’s the part where you’re still figuring it out.

Still planting. Still stretching. Still hoping.

And listen — I’m still there in some ways.

Even after launching MoSmiles, building a brand I love, and working daily on my mindset and growth… there are still moments I catch myself asking, Is this working? Am I behind? Shouldn’t I be further by now?

And every time, I come back to this truth:

The in-between isn’t punishment. It’s preparation.

You’re not stuck. You’re settling into your next level.

The Middle Is Where the Magic Happens

The world celebrates the before and after — the transformation, the breakthrough, the highlight reel.

But the middle? That’s where we grow roots. That’s where we strengthen our trust. That’s where the real you is built.

It doesn’t always feel exciting.

It won’t always look shiny on the outside.

But it’s sacred.

And if you’re in it right now, here’s what I want you to know: You’re not alone. And you’re not late.

5 Bright Side Habits That Help Me Stay Grounded in the In-Between

These are little anchors I come back to when I feel lost or behind. Try one or two this week — and see what shifts:

1. Keep a “Proof Journal”
   Write one sentence a day about what is working — a kind message, a small win, a mindset shift, a sale, a smile. It adds up.

2. Take Mood-Boost Walks
   No pressure to perform or fix anything. Just walk, move your body, and play your feel-good playlist. Breathe. Come back to yourself.

3. Unfollow to Protect Your Peace
   That account that leaves you doubting yourself? You’re allowed to mute or unfollow. Curate a feed that fuels you, not drains you.

4. Wear a Reminder
   That’s why I created the “You Make the World a Better Place” hoodie — not just for the aesthetic (though yes, it’s cozy), but to remind you: your progress matters, even if it’s quiet.

5. Set “Tiny Wins” Goals
   Not do it all. Just one clear step per day. Finish one thing. Celebrate it. Then rest.

For the Girl Who’s Still Figuring It Out

You don’t have to have it all together to be worthy of celebration.

You don’t have to wait until the finish line to be proud of your progress.

You’re not lost — you’re landing.

You’re not behind — you’re in the middle of becoming.

And that? That’s powerful.

Breathe This In Before You Go:

“Even the pause is part of the pace.”

“You are still growing — and that counts.”

“This version of you is allowed to be proud, too.”

If this post felt like a hug, send it to someone who’s also in the in-between.

And follow @brightside.club for more gentle reminders that you’re doing better than you think.